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SB: How did you start the role of talking to people about self-harm? C: Our message to people who self-harm is that you can recover. It is possible and with support and understanding you can, over time, reduce and stop your self-harm. The majority of people Harmless has come into contact with, have self-harmed for over five years so this may seem impossible but there is always hope. We would encourage people to find someone who they can talk to - in the first instance this may be a friend/family member, or a teacher or colleague, and it is important that all these people have an understanding of self-harm. It can be very distressing to support someone who self-harms, so we provide support and information to anyone who might come into contact with someone who self-harms, to help them cope with their responses to the individuals self-harm. SB: Are there any signs to look out for if you are concerned that someone is self-injuring? C: Often there are no signs that someone is self-harming, but instead signs of the cause of the self-harm, such as bullying, abuse, any of life's stressful events. Sometimes people who harm their arms may wear long sleeves, even in the hot summer months. Or have unexplained marks or bruises on their body. Of course these signs can also be indicators of abuse, bullying, domestic violence or similar so it's important to cautious when approaching the subject with the individual. Take time to get to know their world, ask them how they are feeling. Do not focus on the possibility of there being self-harm, but on the person as an individual and that you have noticed that they appear to be struggling in some way. Self-harm is not THE problem, it is a symptom of other issues which are troubling the person. SB: Self-harm is quite a delicate subject to talk about so how do you get the young people you work with to open up to you? C: At present we don't do any face to face work but over the next few months we aim to develop support groups and by the end of the year we aim to be providing counselling in the East Midlands area. This will be a start; we hope that in the future our work will be able to be widely replicated across the UK. It is important that any individuals we work with feel safe and understood. In order for people to start opening up about their difficulties they need to feel secure, and know that the person they are talking too will be compassionate, sensitive and kind. These things may sound simple, but they can go a long way towards breaking down some of the barriers and isolation that face people who self-harm. It is important that the individual is shown patience, and time to explore their feelings at their own pace, and that there is no pressure placed upon them to STOP self-harming, for the benefit of someone else's comfort, or because it's a BAD thing to do. |
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